Of Course he doesn't want Children

He is 51!!!!


Thank goodness he only dropped a line to tell me Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. While I appriciate the message. I have issues with 51 year old guys looking at 30 year old profiles. It is the fact that he is old enough to be my dad that gets to me.

Italian Man Again

He must have this messaged so that he can copy and paste it.

 i am italian and i have 10 tattoos and 6 piercings would love to get to know u hello how are u i just read ur profile think we have alot in common and would love to get to know u more

What is really funny about this is his profile is about wanting a real person....

Italian Man

hello how are you - was in the subject line. The message looked promising.

Then I saw this:

 i am italian and i have 10 tattoos and 6 piercings would love to get to know u hello how are u i just read ur profile think we have alot in common and would love to get to know u more


hmmm... we have a LOT in common REALLY!!!??  Let me guess it was the headline Texas Girl looking for Texas Boy!!! Then there is the fact that I DO NOT have one tattoo and the only piercings I have are the 2 holes in my ears. But hey if you think we have A LOT in COMMON!!!!

You are yummy!

You are yummy was the subject line and this was the message:

 I want some of you!


He sent the message TWICE!!!!

Do I come across as girl that would flock toward this!!!?????  Obviously I have done something wrong with my profile....How do I come across as the girl that just wants a guy to pop in and say, Hi, my name is _____....so tell me what do you do for fun? (you know a normal conversation like we are humans)

Foot Fetish Guy Returns AGAIN!!!!

My name is (no names here), first let me say what an attractive woman that I think you are. I am a romantic, sensual man looking for a woman to get to know and see where it leads. I think your smile is simply amazing and I hope I have the chance to be able to get to know you better.

So, I am a romantic sensual guy (means I want to rub your feet)

Why can't a guy send a message that says, "hey, I like your profile. I think you're cute and would like to get to know you"

Why do they have to be weird.....

Jazz Fan

He is 52 and he sent me a simple message of Hi, how are you?


I can't help but think My Parents are just about the same age!!!!


ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!

Mr Dirty Mouth

A guy sends me an IM that says, "you want to cum out". Then just moments later he uses a four letter word. While I am not against cussing all together and would not ask someone not to cuss around me, this guy does not know me and we have only talked a few times. I thought that I would let him know that his language was bothering me in hopes that he would just adjust it. Normally, if you let a guy know they just stop or knock it back. Not this guy....no he asked me who made me god....I explained no one, I just wanted him to know that he was coming on a little to strong with his language. He told me that he is an adult. So I explained that is okay but you don't have to use bad language to show that your an adult. (My personal opinion is that adults don't have to use it. I left that out of this conversation) He told me that my attitude stinks. I once again tried to explain that I wasn't angry I just wanted him to know how I felt. I also told him that he didn't have to talk to me. He told me that he doesn't have to look. (Okay, so he is on a dating site when he sends me a message wants me to meet up with him. He has women knocking down his door and he is on a dating site...*just saying) I told him that I hope he finds a girl that doesn't mind his language as I deleted him from my contact list.

On to the next one...

Sassy

you have such a sassy smile.
I think your just as cute as all get out.
I would like to chat with you.
so talk to ya soon.

This message made me smile. I honestly do not think that my smile was the first thing he noticed but hey if it wasn't he didn't lie....He at least made it seem like he looked for my smile.

Moving Man

I am talking to this guy right now! He pops in to chat and wants to meet up tonight. He offers coming over to my place so I mentioned My Dad is here and he responds that he doesn't mind who is here. As we talk further he ask to meet up so I ask where would you like to go. He ask if I would mind going to his work to drink beer.(before I address the fact that I don't like beer) I ask him where he works and he gives me the name. I ask what type of business he is in and he says he works for a moving company. Does anyone else see something wrong with this:

A strange guy wanting to go drink beer at a location that may or may not have people around. That has access to who knows what and probably a number of storage units....Yeah that is how I want to spend my evening with a guy I DON'T KNOW!!!

The Truck Driver writes back...

"i will be honest i was just looking for a nsa/descreete relationship with a plus size lady"

My response: Guess you need to keep looking and thanks for the material for my blog...


Okay so I will admit I don't know what nsa stands for but I do understand where discreet is headed....

So, I looked at his profile to see if he is married and I read this:

hi i am looking for a lady with good values from 18-35 would like to find someone to settle down with have atleast one child lord willing i hope to go back to church someday (church of christ) i dont do the clubs and the wild drinking i currently drive a truck but that can change for the right person please reply if this sounds close

I should probably add at this point that he is 40 and looks it!!

REALLY??!!!!  I am really considering adding him as a favorite so I can write a review on him!!!! but that is just too much work...so I will just move on to the next one!!

Truck Driver

He sends me a message that says, "hi can we spend a quite evening at ur place ".  I simply replied, "No way I don't know you"

My Dad said, "You should have told him sure!!! You, Me, and My Dad it will be a GREAT evening!!!"

I am going to have to remember that one for the next one!

Mr Goofy

I am sitting here tonight minding my own business just looking around online and I get this message from this guy saying he needs my help. I am waiting for the part where he admits he needs money. I am willing to admit that I was going to slam him if asked me for money and not even know me. Then he tells me what he needs....He is wanting me to come over TONIGHT to color his hair and shave his neck. Hello!!! I don't know you so I am not coming over to your place. You don't know me so why would you want me touching your hair. Don't you have fb friends you can request a good referral from. I explained to this guy that I really only like buzz cuts so I could cut his hair for him and trim his neck but that is about it. Once he finally gets the picture that I am not coming over to color his hair he starts asking questions. He asked me if I wanted kids. I gave my typical response "one day" his response was let's get started....REALLY!!! I am not even willing to come over and color your hair and you are going there already!! This conversation did not last much longer.

More Wonderful Messages

A 25 year old that just wants to be find a friend sends me a message:

 wanna play?

The answer is NO!!!


A 42 year old writes:

WOW WOW WOW

A 21 year old sends a message that says:

cutie with a booty")


*Well, it is the same ol'e same ol'e thing!!!   BORING!!!

Mr Forgetful

I got this message and it was entitled: Hi

how u doing beautiful i like what i c i would love to have a beautiful women like u on my arm im 25 stay in da north dallas area i got my own everything no kids no drama 45tattoos just looking to meet cool people from dfw i dont club im very much single and dont got time for games if u like what u c and want to get to know get at me

The second message was entitled: Get at me

how u doing beautiful i like what i c i would love to have a beautiful women like u on my arm im 25 stay in da north dallas area i got my own everything no kids no drama 45tattoos just looking to meet cool people from dfw i dont club im very much single and dont got time for games if u like what u c and want to get to know get at me

hmmm seems the guy is really creative......*sarcasm*

I think he forgot that he already sent me this message.

killer / good guy...who knows!!!

A guy asked me what I was doing and I told him that I am enjoying a lazy Sunday. This is what he sent me in reply:

Want to enjoy it at my place cuddled up watching a movie? lol

All I can think is this is how girls end up hurt or killed. They don't know these guys and they are willing to just up and do this.

Of course I would love to cuddle up on the couch with someone watching a movie but that doesn't happen on the first day we meet!! Whatever happened to just getting to know someone!!

Santa Clause

He is 48 and he looks like he can play Santa at the Mall... Don't get me wrong...I do understand that means that he is not small, but I would like'em a little younger...

He sent me this message:

DAMMMM nice pic dont get close to the pool i mite push u in lol      - Does he realize it is COLD outside!!! THERE IS NO WAY YOU ARE GETTING ME NEAR A POOL!!! It is toooooo Cold!!!

Then I got this message a moment after that one...

 DAMMMM nice pic dont get close to the pool i mite push u in lol do u country dance? - Would it be an all out lie if I told him No!!! Technically I line dance....

He's 21

and he thinks I am "Absolutely Gorgeous"!!!  Hmm.....maybe I am thinking this all wrong.....hehehe

although he is starting classes soon and he doesn't know his major......

I'm Done!!

I was talking to a guy that I was not sure of but willing to give a chance.

I am done!!!

Today he sends me a message saying if I receive a message from his number to ignore it because he had to get a new phone.

I start inquiring as to why and he says it was stolen. I asked why he couldn't just get a new one and have that one shut off so that he could keep the same number. Then he explains: His ex-girlfriend stole it. Again, I explained that he could get a new phone. That is when he explained further that she came with the police to get some of her stuff and stole it! (It already sounds like more drama then I like to have in my life!) Then he tells me that they were sharing an account....Now, I get it. The phone was in her name they broke up and she has every right to collect it, and he was not handing it over so she had to get the police involved. (That is when it is over!!!!)

Why do girls do that....why do they get accounts in their names for people they are just dating. Or why would they just hand over a phone they are paying for because they have two (I've heard that one recently) to a guy that they are only dating. In one situation only for a few weeks.

I am not that type of girl. I will not co-mingle funds while dating a guy. It would have to be one SERIOUS relationship....I am talking about to get married next week!!!  before funds will be co-mingled on my end!!!

Then in this situation the girl not only provided the phone (which doesn't say much good about him) but she had to get the police involved to get it and other items back. (Again another rule before the relationship is SERIOUS, don't leave anything behind!!!!) The fact that she had to get the police involved suggest that he is a trouble maker and likes to cause drama!!! I like to limit drama in my life. Drama happens in life but I can limit it's effect on my life.

I will choose to stay away from this! I don't think this guy is worthy of leaving the lake view for.......so I will not!!! I would rather be home here enjoying the view then out with a guy like this!!!

Mr Leggs.....OMG!!!

so I called him Mr Leggs to be funny. I noticed he likes legs in his profile...but now he has a very unique fetish..

LEGGS!!! like the panty hose.....It is not a weird crazy phsyco fetish...He just likes to see them on the girl that he is dating.

The guy is covered in tattoos...including his face. I am not a fan of tatoos...I can't imagine permantly putting something on me...I have enough scars.

I also like guys who can play hard and get dirty and then clean up nicely....How does a guy with tatoos on his face clean up nicely.

But this is the way the guys talks...when he is not sharing about his fetish...and the only reason why he shares is because I am very interested....

 i will never lie to you... dodge questions or disrespect you in anyway... except the holiday present hiding or suprise that i might withold

being a man takes honor respect sacrifice and knowledge

He is right he has not dodged a question and has been very straight forward and honest.(You can't make up some of these answers)  He has also allowed me to be honest with him. He knows that the tattoos bother me but I love how he is straight forward and honest. I am really convienced he can be A MAN!! The only thing I have told him is that I am willing to get to know him while the two of us are free to get to know other people. I don't know about this one but maybe that is why I am still single!!!!

Mr Leggs!!!

So from what I have gathered from his profile he likes legs....

He sent me a message stating he liked my profile...I asked him what he liked about it he stated a lot!! I was just about to blow him off when he told me he noticed that I care about my family.

He went on to explain:
  you seem to be a woman who would be a good pal... and a good lover that can enjoy herself in alot of different aspects... from hose and heels to tees and jeans im sure youd find a way to have fun

he got all that from my profile!!  AWESOME!!! I will take that as a compliment!

can you be real

That was the title of the message I received tonight. I want to reply back....no, I am fake you are looking at a plus size manikin because that is what is in right now.

The message reads:

 just take us slow and we may be good u live some place by me but were at john


okay, so I have to ask....who or what is john???  Slow is all I know but I can tell you what we can go as slow as never happening.. I know that sounds mean. He is a little out of my age range and his profile says that his kids are over the age of 18.

I should give him a chance because he does butcher the English language like me.

Example:
i am differant cause I still beleave in romancing a lady.it being cooking or sending a weird gift or a full body rub down

Yep! You made my Blog...

I told you!! I did give you a heads up!!! Here it is....

I was talking to a guy this week and he informs that he Loves my Manly Hands!!! *Yeah, that is what EVERY girl longs to hear!!!! ;)

Then later on he informs me that I am STUBBORN!!! I took this as a compliment!!! (Granted it is another reason I am still single but I can live with THAT!!)

Smart One!!!

I am sitting at home bored on a Thursday night because I have a mild fever and I don't want to get anyone sick....So I am online.

This guy pops in to talk. Ask me how I am doing....I'm honest and explain bored. I told him I normally go out on Thursday nights but I am sitting at home with fever.....After a while he asks me if I am going out. I responded with a no. He says, "well, your bored" REALLY!!!??? Obviously he missed the entire part about the FEVER!!! Once again I had to explain to him I didn't want to get anyone sick so I am staying in tonight. Yes, I am bored and down because I can't get out...but it is better then getting out and having people get sick!!!  I should have met him and got him sick!!! *but I am a little too nice for that....and now I just don't feel like getting out...

SWEET!!!

The following message is REALLY SWEET!! I am just not interested....

look sweet baby ill convert into a blk red neck or cowboy just to prove to you i wanna get to know you

and thus another reason I am still single!!!!

Chemistry is a must

Got a message from a guy that has Chemistry is a must in his profile and this is what the message says:

nice boobs


This is what he must mean when he says Chemistry is a must!! This message really does solicit a response so it will not get one. While I appriciate that this guy obvious does not play games I would prefer a little more subtlety. (I know, I know, I am picky....oh, well...I know what I want)

Foot Fetish Guy Returns

I think he forgot that we have already talked. I just got a message from him. It reads:

I am looking for a woman to get to know and pamper with no serious intentions of a relationship. Do you enjoy having your feet massaged?

Again with the feet!!! I don't even know this guy...dude...start with - Hi my name is ____which I am impressed that you did this time...but finding common interest would be nice....a few more convestations and we could meet up one day we might sit on a couch watching movies and then you can offer to massage my feet!! This approach is just SCARY!!!

do i have to be a cowboy to win your heart?

Not a requirement but a PLUS!!!! My Favorite are the ones that wear helmets and throw pigskins....

but I like the ones that wear hats and boots too!!!!

I don't care for long hair, ear rings, or tattoos..... I like the rugged looked....but I also want a guy that clean up nice every once in a while....!!!

My Days of being Single are numbered!!!

Yep...that is what I was just told...

We have never talked, he is skinny, and just not really my type at all but he announced that my days of being single are numbered...

Things that make you go hmmm.....

I have been looking at this guys profile for some time. He appears to fit the Offensive Lineman type.....I have hesitated due to the age difference....the older I get the more I started considering this....

When I saw I had a message from him...I'll admit...I thought...okay...maybe...

then I read it.....

Hmmm girl u are stacked sum kinda
sexy!

Just had to say that, he, he


Okay so this guy might have a good sense of humor....but he has never met me.....Couldn't he had just started out with hi my name is _______ and it is REALLY nice to meet you!!!

Long thick

Not sure that I am even meant to respond to this.....Long thick was the title and the message is.....

  2.1.4.2.1.2.6.0.0    I wonder if that is his Social Security number???!!!!

SHIRTLESS SURPRISES!!!!

Shirtless has been popping in to chat. The conversations have been very brief that is until tonight. So, I took the oppertunity to ask him if we could be serious for a moment. When he said yes, I asked him if he remembered going off in my inbox. His response was very quick. Not only did he remember it but he apologized. The conversation has been good since!!! hmmm.....

OMGOODNESS!!!

I have been talking to a guy for some time and he seemed really nice!!!!  The conversations have just been about common interest and daily life activities. Tonight he informs me that him and his girlfriend are looking for a third!!!!!!


The excuse for this is because he has a serious drive....and they have been having issues....so the solution is not to go see a counselor or try to work out their own issues...it is to get another person involved with them...

I couldn't help but tell him that, "He obviously needed to grow up and put his big boy pants on and realize the world does not revolve around him" According to him I have said this before about another situation....hmmmm maybe this guy just needs to grow up....

No matter how you look this it is CRAZY!!!!!  On to the next one!!!!

is he expecting a response......

busty n big booty!    -  just what is the response to this supposed to be!!!????

Is this supposed to make me feel good about myself???!!!!!

Update on Offensive Lineman

So he is the one I was supposed to meet that had the Uncle that passed away...

Out of concern I sent him a message checking on him right after his Uncle passed. I am a little confused. He knew is Uncle was supposed to die on Tuesday and he was okay with meeting up with on Friday...but his Uncle finally passed away the Friday we were supposed to meet up and he has been down ever since. The latest messages say to please be patient with him as things have been rough. hmmm.......and he thought he was going to be able to meet up with me on Friday???

I guess we will see......not holding my breath....

Mr Complicated

Just made things much easier. He told me tonight that him and his ex are back together. He did admit that he was not going to tell me this......but he thought that I deserved respect so he wanted to be honest.

He wanted to make sure that I didn't feel rejected. Awww that was sweet....but if someone can work things out with someone they have kids with and/or been married to then that needs to be pursued.

At the end of the conversation he tells me that the site I am on can not offer me what I deserve...again sweet...but what he failed to do is propose where to go......because no matter where I go this has been about the normal response.

He is really sweet and it has been nice having someone to talk to....but on to the next one....

Baby Juice?!

I received a message that said,

whats up baby juice. how are you?


  yep....that is what it said....

Skinny Boy

Oh my goodness....so this real skinny guy pops in and wants to talk...I thought why not just talk to the guy.

During our conversation he tells me I look strong and that scares him. I don't think any guy has ever told me that so I had to ask. He went on to explain that a girl he was dating pinned him against the wall. She had him up high enough that his feet dangled. I will admit I could take him!!!

Later on in the conversation he tells me he wants to cuddle and he can keep me safe and warm...REALLY??!!! because if I can take you...then I am not going to feel to SAFE!!!!! well, I will feel safe that I don't have to worry about you.....one wrong move and I can take you.

uugghh...and once again all I run into are a bunch of guys wanting to get serious really fast..... can't we just hang out and relax.....why do things have to get so serious so fast....oh well, on to others.

Mental Breakdown

Shirtless had a mental breakdown and went off in my inbox.....I have to admit he left me a little dumb founded.

The night before last he made it clear that since I wouldn't show him my boobs he didn't want to talk to me. I am sorry but I am not going to use a web cam or take a pic of my breast so that it can end up on U Tube or mailed out to all your friends. I was sure he was done with me....then with all the weather I sent him a message to his inbox making sure he was okay...He replied asked me how I was and we left it like that....he was online all evening and never another word. Then he popped in....and boy did he....I figured out that he was in a poor me mood....but I wasn't going to give in and show him my boobs online just because he was feeling bad......and it wasn't that I wasn't into him, I am just not into sending pics of myself to people online especially a person that I have never met. I have been quite honest from the beginning...I am looking for someone I can hang out with and have a good time out in public.....granted it may grow from there but until then that is all you get...You have to prove that you are Worthy for that step......Which he failed to do...

He accused me of being a tease....okay.....He asked personal questions and I was honest...maybe I should have said bug off instead...but I am not a prude, I am a girl that knows what she likes and I know what I want so if you ask me a question I know the answer to, I feel comfortable answer it.

            I love Hugs and Back Rubs, I love it when people play with my hair,  and I love being kissed, and I really love being kissed on the forehead. So if telling you this is being a tease then I am guilty...

The worst part is he sent me a message telling me that, "I know I am just a fatass that will only find guys that want to have sex with me" This really hurts...Part of me thinks....he's right...I heard this comment back when I weighed 125 and I am still single today and all I have ran into is a bunch of hornballs. When I heard this statement back when I weighed 125 I was devastate.....but the good news is when I read his statement...I recognized it for what it is worth. This was his mental breakdown not mine. I did not seek this guy out he sought me out. Okay so I suggested that he might want to try a younger age range...but you can't expect (what he called a real woman) to act like a 21 year old. I do feel awful that this guy felt so bad that he had to blow up on me...and his words were hurtful...but they did not get me down....and I know that comes from strength that I did not have on my own. I know that in the moment that I was feeling awful and very hurt by his words God reminded me that his mental breakdown is not mine. Yes, I can afford to loose some weight but the real issue in this moment was he was wanting something and he wasn't getting it. Instead of just moving on he blew up. The good news is he was smart....While I was thinking this behavior deserves no response because that would only encourage and feed it, I noticed he deleted his profile. Thank you shirtless!!! That way I am not tempted to reply to your mental health breakdown!!!

Shirtless is back

And I am surprised!!!!

He approached me so differently then last night....he started a normal conversation....and come to find out he sounds like a smart guy!!!

He didn't ask me if I live alone...he asked me if my mom lived with me? Clever!!! I didn't fell attacked or like some guy was out to stalk me...it was just a normal conversation that flowed. Complete turn around from last night!!!!

If I didn't know better I would say this guy has been reading my blog!!!!

Shirtless

I normally don't talk to guys that have shirtless pics on their profile, but there has been one guy that proved to be nice that has a couple of shirtless pics...so when this guy popped in I talked to him....

the conversation went like this:

hi
hello
how are you
good yourself
what are you up to
blogging
what about
the crazy people I meet on here...
oh yeah I hear ya
How big are you bust? *yeah you just made the blog!!!!!
so I couldn't resist...I had him guess.....and of course he started with the size everyone starts with....Here is where I get on my soap box...(oh the conversation with the guy, it ended here...when I wouldn't let him see them he accused me of being fake...dude they are real, and I have nothing to prove that to you!!!)

 But now let's get on to something IMPORTANT...most girls are wearing the wrong bra size the biggest size Wal-mart sells is DDD so girls force themselves into a DDD. They need to be told about the Maddox Shop...not only will they fit a girl into the right size but they can also make adjustments right in the store for just $3 to $5 more. Every girl should know about the Maddox Shop it is a wonderful experience and they might actually find out they are wearing the wrong size, and the size they need really does exist.

Mantoy round two!!!

Came back for a second round SERIOUSLY!!!! At least he is HONEST!!!

Him: hi
Me: hello.....you are back
Him: u are FINE as hell
Him: id lick u till u were numb
Me: does that normally work with girls
Him: no
Me: so why do you do it?
Him: sorry
Him: just horny

He still tried one more line and then it just stopped....So why do I write about this guy...

I recently had a friend tell me, "Kim, not every guy that comes up to you wants to have sex...sometimes they just want to be nice." I can't help but think REALLY!!!! because I that is not what I get to experience!!!

Mantoy

Him:hi
Him: how r u
me: good how about yourself
Him: bout to go to sleep!
me: oh yeah
Him: r u a naughty woman?
me: nope
Him: sux..u are a KNOCKOUT!
me: oh thanks
Him: love that cute little smile
me: thanks
Him: u dont want a MANTOY?
me: nope

Meeting Up

To accomplish my goal of wanting to meet someone that I can just hang out with and have a good time, I will eventually have to meet up with someone....

So, I had 2 planned this week. While I was REALLY excited...I was also REALLY NERVOUS!!!!

The first guy I have talked to several times and I was thinking he would be a great guy to just hang out and he might be..... We had plans to meet up this week and right before the week got started he mentioned his sister had a medical emergency and this week would not be a good week to meet...I can understand being concerned for family members!! Not a problem.

Then I was suppose to meet someone else for lunch yesterday....Granted it was going to be short, but it was just going to be the first one....then I got this email:

I am in the hospital visiting my uncle who is not doing well at all. I am not sure if I mentioned him, but he has appendix cancer, a very rare form of cancer that is about a 1 in 300,000,000 diagnosis. So it has been a pretty horrible 2 days. I thought we wasnt going to make it past Tuesday night.


I am sorry to cancel on you. I left your number at home and just realized tomorrow is friday.

I hope your stomach pain is not hurting you at all. I was really looking forward to lunch.

You know I wish he would had just said...I had a family medical emergency.

So I looked up the cancer because I had never heard of it....the first article I pulled up was a testimony of a lady who was experiancing stomach pain and was being treated for a female issue and they found this cancer...Yeah!!! I shouldn't have looked it up!!!

I still had a VERY GOOD LUNCH!!! and Dinner with the family that night was a BONUS!!!

Cowboy Update

I was really thinking about replying to the Cowboy's message.  I have to admit I thought it was funny!!! A guy with a good sense of humor can be fun....so I thought I would write back just to get a conversation going.

Then I got this message from him today:
"Say, If I bought you all of Garland, you think i might have a chance, Ok forget Garland, Make it Addison, or Frisco" Okay my first thought is SCARY!!!! My next thought...hmmm if he could buy me Garland, Addison or Frisco...does that mean he could pay off my student loans!!!???? hmmm....

no seriously, when guys offer to buy expensive gifts right away it SCARES ME!!! I have talked to several guys that seem really nice, and then in the first conversation they mention wanting to buy me Tiffany earrings, or some other really expensive item and that is where I loose them......I loved how one guy very politely noticed that I was bothered by this and kindly let me know that it would not work out between us.....

I don't know exactly what it is that causes me to be scared by this, but I can't help think where are the strings????!!!

Cowboy

You can not make this stuff up....I have tried really hard not to use actual information on here because I really don't want to embarrass anyone...I am just sharing...but tonight I got an interesting message and I have to share....

How are you this evening? Say? If I moved back to Mesquite, and leave the Cow Sh**, Think I would have a chance to chat with you and maybe take you out or meet you for lunch or dinner?


Well, I Pray you have a Great evening, Take Care, and God Bless!


That made me laugh!!! I haven't decided what I am going to do with this one just yet....so I will hold on to it!!!

The Boy

He's 20!!!!!!!

Okay so I am not old enough to be a Cougar but I don't care to be a Puma either!!!!


Am I CRAZY!!! but what would a 20 year old guy want with 31 year old female!!!!


Okay, so I have always been attracted to 30 something year old guys!! So I just don't think this one is going to work....not even as a hang out buddy!!!

Not Fair!!!

So I was told that I am not fair because I refuse to meet up with a guy I don't know and act like the girls on "Girls Gone Wild". SERIOUSLY!!!

A Wise Lady once told me that "We teach people how to treat us!". I knew she was right, but I didn't get how we taught people how to treat us. Now I know a huge part of teaching people on how to treat us is by what we settle for or let them get away with doing to us.

I want a gentleman. I want a to hang out with a guy that can carry on a normal conversation. Now I am not saying I don't expect him to be a guy but I will not change who I am for a guy, and I am not a Girls Gone Wild kinda girl!!!!

Yummy!!!

I just got a message that reads:

u look so yummy i want some of u

SERIOUSLY!!!!! ??????

okay so I think I have heard that phrase before or something like it!!!......but it was from a guy that I had been dating for some time!!!! I have never met this guy and this is how he wants to present himself...obviously he missed the "good Texas girl" description.

Right Now Right Now!!!!

I used to have a friend that would use the phrase "Right Now Right Now" to indicate the urgency of the moment...I had heard this phrase for years before I heard George Lopez refer to it!!

That is the name of the next guy. While this is a guy that I have been talking to lately he is not the first and I am sure he will not be the last!!!

This guy wants ALL the benefits of a long term relationship RIGHT NOW!!! and then he wants to get to know you!!! (So he says!!!) Does he realize that I am 31 years old!

Can't we just hang out get to know one another and then move forward appropriately?

Your Very Pretty, Why are you still single?

Really???!!! I wanted to respond.....Well, we know why you are still single...you have such a way of making a girl feel so special....but I didn't!!! I noticed that he likes the stars on Food Network so I talked to him about his cooking interest.....

If the guy had to say anything a better way to do it would have been to say, "your still single...what can I do to change that ;) " Now, that would have suggested that he has sense of humor and made me laugh....

Frog Man

He calls himself frog man!!!  and all he did was send a message that said, "You are Beautiful. Have a good day!!!"

So I looked at this guys profile and he is not someone I would normally jump to talk to!!! but you have to admit a message like that gets your attention!!!! I think I will have to keep Frog Man's profile...

How are you doing?

The "How are you doing guy" pops in everyday with a message that says, "how are you doing?" the problem is it really doesn't go any further then that and there is no reference to the answer or the day before. Kinda like the movie fifty first dates where everyday you start fresh....a little weird....

The Artist

I woke up this morning to what looks like a BEAUTIFUL DAY on the lake!!! I sit in my oversize chair and I get on my laptop because it is in front of me....I get online and realize I have new messages. I'll admit it is fun reading about other people. Then I read the messages. An artist sends one early this morning....asking me if I would like a warm massage today. Well, right off the bat my eyes notice the word warm....and for some reason in this Texas Heat!! The idea of anything being warm just does not appeal to me right away!!! The very next phrase is "I can host or come over!!!" SERIOUSLY!!!! You expect me to come to your place ALONE!!! or worse yet!!! Let you come to my place, and I don't know you!!! Do you think I want to be KILLED today!!!???  I am sorry I love my life way too much to meet up with you....another message ignored!!!

**just a note*** I have already looked at the next guys message and it reads I want to hook up...so I read his profile and got excited because he might understand what hooking up means when you have never met the person!!!!

Police Officer

Last night I had the wonderful opportunity to chat with a police officer. He seemed really nice and really funny!!!

So he mentioned let's meet....my response, okay where....his response, come over tomorrow. Hold up!!! I don't know this guy! I am not about to go over to his place to meet up with him! Seriously!! I explain that was not going to happen. He begins to insist. I refer back to the fact that he is a police officer. I asked him if he would normally recommend that a girl go over to a guy's house alone that she has never met!! He begins to tell me that he is special because he is a police officer....and of course I had a quick come back of "Says the Serial Killer"

It only gets better from there he wanted to meet me in the back of the Wal-Mart parking lot!!! and had the nerve to tell me not to wear a bra....Seriously!!! My conclusion this guy is off his rocker and on to the next one!!!

Foot Fetish Guy

I logged onto the site and received an IM. The message simply read Hi. I replied Hello...the next sentence was can I massage your feet...????   (WHAT??) Now I must say that this was not my first encounter with a foot fetish guy! Each situation in the past has left me wanting to run from the situation. When the message came across I felt those old feelings of wanting to run. Don't get me wrong I wouldn't mind a guy with a foot fetish. I pay good money every 2 to 3 weeks to have my feet rubbed, and the guy that does my pedicures knows right where to rub....(just behind the ankles!!!) However, have you seen the guy in Adam Sandler's movie Mr Deeds! It has been my experience that guys with a foot fetish are just like the guy who wants to put on everyone socks...that is just weird and SCARY!!! They appear from NO WHERE and out of NO WHERE want to rub your feet!!! What the Heck!!! At least let me see you coming my way!!! Say hello, ask me my name, shake my hand start small talk....and then if it goes further and we find ourselves sitting on the couch together watching a movie then you can ask to rub my feet!!!

Texas Girl looking for Texas Boy

When I created my profile for the singles site I had to come up with a headline. I put a lot of thought into it!!! When I got down to the basics I came up with "Texas Girl looking for Texas Boy" I realize that limits the people that will reply to my profile. However, you can't help it when you know what you want!!! There is just something about Texas Boys that is a little different then the rest of the world....and I think it is HOT!!!

The first response came from a guy living in Texas, but bragging about not being from Texas. Really, he obviously didn't get the idea!

Then there was the Russian guy. No offense Russia but you have nothing on Texas boys!!!

Why a Blog!!!??

Recently I read a girls blog about Kissing Frogs!!! It is her experiences in dating. I will admit it made me feel GREAT to know that I am not alone!!!

I am hoping that my blog will do the same!!!

I recently created an online dating profile and already have stories.