He's 21

and he thinks I am "Absolutely Gorgeous"!!!  Hmm.....maybe I am thinking this all wrong.....hehehe

although he is starting classes soon and he doesn't know his major......

I'm Done!!

I was talking to a guy that I was not sure of but willing to give a chance.

I am done!!!

Today he sends me a message saying if I receive a message from his number to ignore it because he had to get a new phone.

I start inquiring as to why and he says it was stolen. I asked why he couldn't just get a new one and have that one shut off so that he could keep the same number. Then he explains: His ex-girlfriend stole it. Again, I explained that he could get a new phone. That is when he explained further that she came with the police to get some of her stuff and stole it! (It already sounds like more drama then I like to have in my life!) Then he tells me that they were sharing an account....Now, I get it. The phone was in her name they broke up and she has every right to collect it, and he was not handing it over so she had to get the police involved. (That is when it is over!!!!)

Why do girls do that....why do they get accounts in their names for people they are just dating. Or why would they just hand over a phone they are paying for because they have two (I've heard that one recently) to a guy that they are only dating. In one situation only for a few weeks.

I am not that type of girl. I will not co-mingle funds while dating a guy. It would have to be one SERIOUS relationship....I am talking about to get married next week!!!  before funds will be co-mingled on my end!!!

Then in this situation the girl not only provided the phone (which doesn't say much good about him) but she had to get the police involved to get it and other items back. (Again another rule before the relationship is SERIOUS, don't leave anything behind!!!!) The fact that she had to get the police involved suggest that he is a trouble maker and likes to cause drama!!! I like to limit drama in my life. Drama happens in life but I can limit it's effect on my life.

I will choose to stay away from this! I don't think this guy is worthy of leaving the lake view for.......so I will not!!! I would rather be home here enjoying the view then out with a guy like this!!!

Mr Leggs.....OMG!!!

so I called him Mr Leggs to be funny. I noticed he likes legs in his profile...but now he has a very unique fetish..

LEGGS!!! like the panty hose.....It is not a weird crazy phsyco fetish...He just likes to see them on the girl that he is dating.

The guy is covered in tattoos...including his face. I am not a fan of tatoos...I can't imagine permantly putting something on me...I have enough scars.

I also like guys who can play hard and get dirty and then clean up nicely....How does a guy with tatoos on his face clean up nicely.

But this is the way the guys talks...when he is not sharing about his fetish...and the only reason why he shares is because I am very interested....

 i will never lie to you... dodge questions or disrespect you in anyway... except the holiday present hiding or suprise that i might withold

being a man takes honor respect sacrifice and knowledge

He is right he has not dodged a question and has been very straight forward and honest.(You can't make up some of these answers)  He has also allowed me to be honest with him. He knows that the tattoos bother me but I love how he is straight forward and honest. I am really convienced he can be A MAN!! The only thing I have told him is that I am willing to get to know him while the two of us are free to get to know other people. I don't know about this one but maybe that is why I am still single!!!!

Mr Leggs!!!

So from what I have gathered from his profile he likes legs....

He sent me a message stating he liked my profile...I asked him what he liked about it he stated a lot!! I was just about to blow him off when he told me he noticed that I care about my family.

He went on to explain:
  you seem to be a woman who would be a good pal... and a good lover that can enjoy herself in alot of different aspects... from hose and heels to tees and jeans im sure youd find a way to have fun

he got all that from my profile!!  AWESOME!!! I will take that as a compliment!

can you be real

That was the title of the message I received tonight. I want to reply back....no, I am fake you are looking at a plus size manikin because that is what is in right now.

The message reads:

 just take us slow and we may be good u live some place by me but were at john


okay, so I have to ask....who or what is john???  Slow is all I know but I can tell you what we can go as slow as never happening.. I know that sounds mean. He is a little out of my age range and his profile says that his kids are over the age of 18.

I should give him a chance because he does butcher the English language like me.

Example:
i am differant cause I still beleave in romancing a lady.it being cooking or sending a weird gift or a full body rub down

Yep! You made my Blog...

I told you!! I did give you a heads up!!! Here it is....

I was talking to a guy this week and he informs that he Loves my Manly Hands!!! *Yeah, that is what EVERY girl longs to hear!!!! ;)

Then later on he informs me that I am STUBBORN!!! I took this as a compliment!!! (Granted it is another reason I am still single but I can live with THAT!!)

Smart One!!!

I am sitting at home bored on a Thursday night because I have a mild fever and I don't want to get anyone sick....So I am online.

This guy pops in to talk. Ask me how I am doing....I'm honest and explain bored. I told him I normally go out on Thursday nights but I am sitting at home with fever.....After a while he asks me if I am going out. I responded with a no. He says, "well, your bored" REALLY!!!??? Obviously he missed the entire part about the FEVER!!! Once again I had to explain to him I didn't want to get anyone sick so I am staying in tonight. Yes, I am bored and down because I can't get out...but it is better then getting out and having people get sick!!!  I should have met him and got him sick!!! *but I am a little too nice for that....and now I just don't feel like getting out...

SWEET!!!

The following message is REALLY SWEET!! I am just not interested....

look sweet baby ill convert into a blk red neck or cowboy just to prove to you i wanna get to know you

and thus another reason I am still single!!!!

Chemistry is a must

Got a message from a guy that has Chemistry is a must in his profile and this is what the message says:

nice boobs


This is what he must mean when he says Chemistry is a must!! This message really does solicit a response so it will not get one. While I appriciate that this guy obvious does not play games I would prefer a little more subtlety. (I know, I know, I am picky....oh, well...I know what I want)

Foot Fetish Guy Returns

I think he forgot that we have already talked. I just got a message from him. It reads:

I am looking for a woman to get to know and pamper with no serious intentions of a relationship. Do you enjoy having your feet massaged?

Again with the feet!!! I don't even know this guy...dude...start with - Hi my name is ____which I am impressed that you did this time...but finding common interest would be nice....a few more convestations and we could meet up one day we might sit on a couch watching movies and then you can offer to massage my feet!! This approach is just SCARY!!!