do i have to be a cowboy to win your heart?

Not a requirement but a PLUS!!!! My Favorite are the ones that wear helmets and throw pigskins....

but I like the ones that wear hats and boots too!!!!

I don't care for long hair, ear rings, or tattoos..... I like the rugged looked....but I also want a guy that clean up nice every once in a while....!!!

My Days of being Single are numbered!!!

Yep...that is what I was just told...

We have never talked, he is skinny, and just not really my type at all but he announced that my days of being single are numbered...

Things that make you go hmmm.....

I have been looking at this guys profile for some time. He appears to fit the Offensive Lineman type.....I have hesitated due to the age difference....the older I get the more I started considering this....

When I saw I had a message from him...I'll admit...I thought...okay...maybe...

then I read it.....

Hmmm girl u are stacked sum kinda
sexy!

Just had to say that, he, he


Okay so this guy might have a good sense of humor....but he has never met me.....Couldn't he had just started out with hi my name is _______ and it is REALLY nice to meet you!!!

Long thick

Not sure that I am even meant to respond to this.....Long thick was the title and the message is.....

  2.1.4.2.1.2.6.0.0    I wonder if that is his Social Security number???!!!!

SHIRTLESS SURPRISES!!!!

Shirtless has been popping in to chat. The conversations have been very brief that is until tonight. So, I took the oppertunity to ask him if we could be serious for a moment. When he said yes, I asked him if he remembered going off in my inbox. His response was very quick. Not only did he remember it but he apologized. The conversation has been good since!!! hmmm.....

OMGOODNESS!!!

I have been talking to a guy for some time and he seemed really nice!!!!  The conversations have just been about common interest and daily life activities. Tonight he informs me that him and his girlfriend are looking for a third!!!!!!


The excuse for this is because he has a serious drive....and they have been having issues....so the solution is not to go see a counselor or try to work out their own issues...it is to get another person involved with them...

I couldn't help but tell him that, "He obviously needed to grow up and put his big boy pants on and realize the world does not revolve around him" According to him I have said this before about another situation....hmmmm maybe this guy just needs to grow up....

No matter how you look this it is CRAZY!!!!!  On to the next one!!!!

is he expecting a response......

busty n big booty!    -  just what is the response to this supposed to be!!!????

Is this supposed to make me feel good about myself???!!!!!

Update on Offensive Lineman

So he is the one I was supposed to meet that had the Uncle that passed away...

Out of concern I sent him a message checking on him right after his Uncle passed. I am a little confused. He knew is Uncle was supposed to die on Tuesday and he was okay with meeting up with on Friday...but his Uncle finally passed away the Friday we were supposed to meet up and he has been down ever since. The latest messages say to please be patient with him as things have been rough. hmmm.......and he thought he was going to be able to meet up with me on Friday???

I guess we will see......not holding my breath....

Mr Complicated

Just made things much easier. He told me tonight that him and his ex are back together. He did admit that he was not going to tell me this......but he thought that I deserved respect so he wanted to be honest.

He wanted to make sure that I didn't feel rejected. Awww that was sweet....but if someone can work things out with someone they have kids with and/or been married to then that needs to be pursued.

At the end of the conversation he tells me that the site I am on can not offer me what I deserve...again sweet...but what he failed to do is propose where to go......because no matter where I go this has been about the normal response.

He is really sweet and it has been nice having someone to talk to....but on to the next one....

Baby Juice?!

I received a message that said,

whats up baby juice. how are you?


  yep....that is what it said....

Skinny Boy

Oh my goodness....so this real skinny guy pops in and wants to talk...I thought why not just talk to the guy.

During our conversation he tells me I look strong and that scares him. I don't think any guy has ever told me that so I had to ask. He went on to explain that a girl he was dating pinned him against the wall. She had him up high enough that his feet dangled. I will admit I could take him!!!

Later on in the conversation he tells me he wants to cuddle and he can keep me safe and warm...REALLY??!!! because if I can take you...then I am not going to feel to SAFE!!!!! well, I will feel safe that I don't have to worry about you.....one wrong move and I can take you.

uugghh...and once again all I run into are a bunch of guys wanting to get serious really fast..... can't we just hang out and relax.....why do things have to get so serious so fast....oh well, on to others.

Mental Breakdown

Shirtless had a mental breakdown and went off in my inbox.....I have to admit he left me a little dumb founded.

The night before last he made it clear that since I wouldn't show him my boobs he didn't want to talk to me. I am sorry but I am not going to use a web cam or take a pic of my breast so that it can end up on U Tube or mailed out to all your friends. I was sure he was done with me....then with all the weather I sent him a message to his inbox making sure he was okay...He replied asked me how I was and we left it like that....he was online all evening and never another word. Then he popped in....and boy did he....I figured out that he was in a poor me mood....but I wasn't going to give in and show him my boobs online just because he was feeling bad......and it wasn't that I wasn't into him, I am just not into sending pics of myself to people online especially a person that I have never met. I have been quite honest from the beginning...I am looking for someone I can hang out with and have a good time out in public.....granted it may grow from there but until then that is all you get...You have to prove that you are Worthy for that step......Which he failed to do...

He accused me of being a tease....okay.....He asked personal questions and I was honest...maybe I should have said bug off instead...but I am not a prude, I am a girl that knows what she likes and I know what I want so if you ask me a question I know the answer to, I feel comfortable answer it.

            I love Hugs and Back Rubs, I love it when people play with my hair,  and I love being kissed, and I really love being kissed on the forehead. So if telling you this is being a tease then I am guilty...

The worst part is he sent me a message telling me that, "I know I am just a fatass that will only find guys that want to have sex with me" This really hurts...Part of me thinks....he's right...I heard this comment back when I weighed 125 and I am still single today and all I have ran into is a bunch of hornballs. When I heard this statement back when I weighed 125 I was devastate.....but the good news is when I read his statement...I recognized it for what it is worth. This was his mental breakdown not mine. I did not seek this guy out he sought me out. Okay so I suggested that he might want to try a younger age range...but you can't expect (what he called a real woman) to act like a 21 year old. I do feel awful that this guy felt so bad that he had to blow up on me...and his words were hurtful...but they did not get me down....and I know that comes from strength that I did not have on my own. I know that in the moment that I was feeling awful and very hurt by his words God reminded me that his mental breakdown is not mine. Yes, I can afford to loose some weight but the real issue in this moment was he was wanting something and he wasn't getting it. Instead of just moving on he blew up. The good news is he was smart....While I was thinking this behavior deserves no response because that would only encourage and feed it, I noticed he deleted his profile. Thank you shirtless!!! That way I am not tempted to reply to your mental health breakdown!!!

Shirtless is back

And I am surprised!!!!

He approached me so differently then last night....he started a normal conversation....and come to find out he sounds like a smart guy!!!

He didn't ask me if I live alone...he asked me if my mom lived with me? Clever!!! I didn't fell attacked or like some guy was out to stalk me...it was just a normal conversation that flowed. Complete turn around from last night!!!!

If I didn't know better I would say this guy has been reading my blog!!!!

Shirtless

I normally don't talk to guys that have shirtless pics on their profile, but there has been one guy that proved to be nice that has a couple of shirtless pics...so when this guy popped in I talked to him....

the conversation went like this:

hi
hello
how are you
good yourself
what are you up to
blogging
what about
the crazy people I meet on here...
oh yeah I hear ya
How big are you bust? *yeah you just made the blog!!!!!
so I couldn't resist...I had him guess.....and of course he started with the size everyone starts with....Here is where I get on my soap box...(oh the conversation with the guy, it ended here...when I wouldn't let him see them he accused me of being fake...dude they are real, and I have nothing to prove that to you!!!)

 But now let's get on to something IMPORTANT...most girls are wearing the wrong bra size the biggest size Wal-mart sells is DDD so girls force themselves into a DDD. They need to be told about the Maddox Shop...not only will they fit a girl into the right size but they can also make adjustments right in the store for just $3 to $5 more. Every girl should know about the Maddox Shop it is a wonderful experience and they might actually find out they are wearing the wrong size, and the size they need really does exist.

Mantoy round two!!!

Came back for a second round SERIOUSLY!!!! At least he is HONEST!!!

Him: hi
Me: hello.....you are back
Him: u are FINE as hell
Him: id lick u till u were numb
Me: does that normally work with girls
Him: no
Me: so why do you do it?
Him: sorry
Him: just horny

He still tried one more line and then it just stopped....So why do I write about this guy...

I recently had a friend tell me, "Kim, not every guy that comes up to you wants to have sex...sometimes they just want to be nice." I can't help but think REALLY!!!! because I that is not what I get to experience!!!

Mantoy

Him:hi
Him: how r u
me: good how about yourself
Him: bout to go to sleep!
me: oh yeah
Him: r u a naughty woman?
me: nope
Him: sux..u are a KNOCKOUT!
me: oh thanks
Him: love that cute little smile
me: thanks
Him: u dont want a MANTOY?
me: nope

Meeting Up

To accomplish my goal of wanting to meet someone that I can just hang out with and have a good time, I will eventually have to meet up with someone....

So, I had 2 planned this week. While I was REALLY excited...I was also REALLY NERVOUS!!!!

The first guy I have talked to several times and I was thinking he would be a great guy to just hang out and he might be..... We had plans to meet up this week and right before the week got started he mentioned his sister had a medical emergency and this week would not be a good week to meet...I can understand being concerned for family members!! Not a problem.

Then I was suppose to meet someone else for lunch yesterday....Granted it was going to be short, but it was just going to be the first one....then I got this email:

I am in the hospital visiting my uncle who is not doing well at all. I am not sure if I mentioned him, but he has appendix cancer, a very rare form of cancer that is about a 1 in 300,000,000 diagnosis. So it has been a pretty horrible 2 days. I thought we wasnt going to make it past Tuesday night.


I am sorry to cancel on you. I left your number at home and just realized tomorrow is friday.

I hope your stomach pain is not hurting you at all. I was really looking forward to lunch.

You know I wish he would had just said...I had a family medical emergency.

So I looked up the cancer because I had never heard of it....the first article I pulled up was a testimony of a lady who was experiancing stomach pain and was being treated for a female issue and they found this cancer...Yeah!!! I shouldn't have looked it up!!!

I still had a VERY GOOD LUNCH!!! and Dinner with the family that night was a BONUS!!!

Cowboy Update

I was really thinking about replying to the Cowboy's message.  I have to admit I thought it was funny!!! A guy with a good sense of humor can be fun....so I thought I would write back just to get a conversation going.

Then I got this message from him today:
"Say, If I bought you all of Garland, you think i might have a chance, Ok forget Garland, Make it Addison, or Frisco" Okay my first thought is SCARY!!!! My next thought...hmmm if he could buy me Garland, Addison or Frisco...does that mean he could pay off my student loans!!!???? hmmm....

no seriously, when guys offer to buy expensive gifts right away it SCARES ME!!! I have talked to several guys that seem really nice, and then in the first conversation they mention wanting to buy me Tiffany earrings, or some other really expensive item and that is where I loose them......I loved how one guy very politely noticed that I was bothered by this and kindly let me know that it would not work out between us.....

I don't know exactly what it is that causes me to be scared by this, but I can't help think where are the strings????!!!

Cowboy

You can not make this stuff up....I have tried really hard not to use actual information on here because I really don't want to embarrass anyone...I am just sharing...but tonight I got an interesting message and I have to share....

How are you this evening? Say? If I moved back to Mesquite, and leave the Cow Sh**, Think I would have a chance to chat with you and maybe take you out or meet you for lunch or dinner?


Well, I Pray you have a Great evening, Take Care, and God Bless!


That made me laugh!!! I haven't decided what I am going to do with this one just yet....so I will hold on to it!!!