Purpose of Blog:

After reading another girls blog entitled Kissing Frogs! I felt GREAT! It is good to know that I am not alone. I chose the title because I know when you read this you will think "and that is why Kim is still single" Everything on this site is from my perspective (a single female). I do realize that my perspective is limited and may misinterpert somethings. Please feel free to insert comments that will help me widen that perspective.

The activity on this blog is going to slow down as I have changed my dating profile info and has caused the crazy ones not to repond and I am only going to use this to tell about the crazy ones.





I am hoping this blog will help other single girls know they are not alone.







I am also hoping that if there are single guys out there reading this will benefit from seeing a girls perspective and consider behaviors and how they are received. Hopefully this will keep them from scaring the girl of their dreams off!!



Sunday, June 5, 2011

FEELS LIKE SOMETHING RIGHT OFF A REALITY SHOW!!!

Below is a message I received tonight. My first thought is this guy for real....My next thoughts are if he is I can tell you right now he is not someone I want to be with.....

I want a guy that loves me for who I am........My desire is for a long steady relationship that consist of encouraging each other to live the abudant life that God desires for us to have no matter what my size....

*****LOVE IS NOT GAZING INTO THE EYES OF EACH OTHER, BUT RATHER LOOKING FORWARD IN THE SAME DIRECTION*****

This guys proposal is not the direction I am looking forward too.....

Hi there :) My name is ****no names used here****, Im from NH. I must say you are very cute :) Im lookin to have fun, chat and maybe meet - lookin for a friend basically. I am a fan of bbw.... I'm also kinda a guy that jumps right into things - so i'll tell you right away what kind of friendship Im lookin for :)

First, I'm looking for a girl who loves her curves - loves everything about being big and a bbw....I'm also looking for someone who loves to chat online and likes to have a guy admire them ;) Someone who likes to be spoiled a lil - I would adore the idea of buying you good food and gifts of course cute clothes :) Essentially, im lookin for a girl that loves being big, wants to get bigger, and wants to be rewarded for it!

I’d be happy to talk n get to know you,i have pics too :) Hope to hear from you soon!

Saturday, May 7, 2011

He's a Biter!!!!

I have never talked to this guy before EVER!!! I have not even seen his profile on line and this is the first message he sends me.

"wow...Id probably bite you lol "

Thanks for the warning......on to the next one!!!!!!

Friday, April 22, 2011

The Nice Guy

So his profie says that he is a nice guy and this is what he had to say!!!

Him:  u still have not found anyone yet?  lol
ME:  what an opening line...
ME:  and you're a nice man..
Him:  guess u dont remember us talking before
Him:  i am a nice man
ME:  hard to remember a profile without a pic
Him:  clear those cobwebs out, and open those legs, and u might just end up finding someone. hahahahahahahaha    :0
*** His' IC window is closed
ME:  OMG!!!

Yeah Coward got off before I could respond!!!!!!!!!!

.....and he is now blocked and will not bother me in the future!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Mr Flying Saucer Again!!!!!!!

Okay. It has been a while since I have talked to this guy....

The last time I talked to him I had to confront the fact that he was only IM'ing me to come over to my apt. I had made it known in the beginning that I would not mind meeting up with him in public. However, he just kept asking to come over.

Tonight was the first time in a long time that he has wrote me. He told me he was at Flying Saucer and asked me if I wanted to join him. He let me know that my beer would be on his tab. I explained I don't drink beer and he continued with he would take care of whatever I wanted. While the idea sounded fun I knew that I had somethings that I needed to do...I explained to him that I had to get a 30 min work out tonight and go to the store. His reply: "I'll throw in a work out after a few drinks ;)" SERIOUSLY!!!! I was trying to give this guy another chance but he blew it!!!!!!!!!

I don't know this guy AT ALL!! We have never met!!! and He is INCAPABLE of being a GENTLEMAN FOR ONE NIGHT!!!!!! HE CAN HIT THE ROAD!!!!

Monday, March 21, 2011

Texas Boy

It started out good!! His message said this :

 "Hi.. Texas Boy applying to get the chance to get to know more about you.. :)"

Impressed that he read the head line of my profile I responded. The first thing he told me was that he  was born in raised in Texas. I thought Yay!!Some one that will get me! As he told me more and more about himself I thought this sounds promising. I really wanted to meet this guy. I couldn't wait to meet this guy. I've been traveling for work so I have been short on time at home. However, in attempt to meet up with him I carved out time to make it happen. The first meeting had to be canceled because he got sick. He knew he was sick when he woke up but according to him he postponed sending me a text to cancel until 40 minutes before the meet up because he was hoping he could make it. Then we talked about attempting to meeting up again and I gave him two times I could meet up. He chose Sunday knowing I was traveling as soon as we were done. Again, I was really excited, finally I was meeting up with a guy that I enjoyed talking too. The guy appeared educated, witty, and considerate of others. Great traits for a guy that you are looking to potentially date.

I woke up to a number of things that needed to be done. Packing, cleaning, and looking cute for this meet up. This meant that I would have to wear my cute clothes to travel. Normally I would just dress for comfort but since I was meeting him first I wanted to look cute. I spent all that time trying to look cute. I was walking out the door to be there in about a minute when my phone beeps. I knew I had a text message and expected it to be that he was there waiting. I got excited and thought good I am just a moment away. Then I read the text message. He explained that something had come up for work and he would not be able to meet me. A TEXT MESSAGE!!! This is the second cancellation and he sent a text message!!! Okay so the emergency at work could have kept him from calling at that moment. However, I didn't respond to that message ALL DAY!! NOT ONCE did he call or text asking if I received the text!! The text he sent explaining that he couldn't meet up also did not apologize for not being able to meet up with me. The last thing that really caught my attention was he lives 40 minutes from where we were meeting. He knew 40 minutes prior to this event that was not going to be able to make it. Yet sent the text message the moment we were to meet.

Again, I understand that life happens and we have no control over it. However, we do have a choice on how we respond. As soon as he realized that he was not going to be able to make it he should have CALLED!! If he was unable to call he should have sent the text apologizing for not being able to meet up with me. Then later he should have called to make sure that I did get the message and check on me because he knew I was traveling. He acted sooo concerned about me traveling earlier in the weekend. The least he could have done is asked if I made it to my destination. He didn't even follow up that rude text message.

Now it has been an entire day and I have yet to hear from this guy. I am thinking he is a little smarter than I give him credit for!!!!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Another NSA Request

REALLY???!!!!!!

Hi, I am looking for a NSA ongoing regular playtime with a girl who wants her body worshipped. Do you have the desire to be sexually ravished by a clean cut, handsome, professional white guy that loves to please orally? I also love penetration, and have the tool to please and know how to use it! So if you are craving a real man's touch send me a message and we can begin the process of getting you the best sex you have ever imagined! I love to make you cum, over and over. Let's explore your fantasies. I am a nice guy, laid back, not pushy and respectful. DDF, clean, and safe. You won't be disappointed! I'm 5 ft. 9 in. 160 lb. Clean, DDF, safe, sane, not flaky. I am real and serious, not into endless emails. I promise not to disappoint.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Another Wonderful Invitation!

Yes, because this is what every girl dreams of being asked!!!!!  
Im in town tonight. U looking for some fun? Would u like ur toes curled? :-)



*on to the next one...